Shhh.....Intro. to Bondage!

Many people wonder about bondage it has been around for years some people have this crazy misconception that bondage is simply about pain it is NOT it's actually highly pleasurable & enhances your sexual intimacy unbelievably

...... Well! once it's done correctly

This Flirt It blog is a light introduction to BDSM styles of bondage. The abbreviations BDSM means B/D (Bondage and Discipline), D/s (Dominance and submission), and S/M (Sadism and Masochism)

Some types of BDSM play includes, but are not limited to:

• Bondage

• Flogging

• Golden showers (urinating)

• Predicament bondage

• Sexual roleplay

• Spanking

• Suspension

Some people have skipped the same old boring sex and have tried to spice up their sexual relationship, with handcuffs and teasing. They found it exciting, the most important rules in bondage role playing is trust, because one of the partners will be restricted and therefore vulnerable.

What attracts people to bondage the relaxing feeling of being tied up and being pleasured. The thrill of play-struggle against their restraints, the exciting rush of being spanked and bitten.

Most importantly the person performing the bondage gets increased feelings of personal power. if you’re the submissive, the thrill of putting your trust in someone would be wild.

So, thinking about trying it out, don’t worry these tips wouldn't start at the extreme, remember a baby has to creep before walking.

Tease & Tie Me: Tie the passive partner up with something that can easily be broken out whilst indulge in a sensual, try such as paper streamers, or a bondage tape. Then they only have to stay in that position if they want to be there.

​Love Blind Me: Blindfolding during sex, massage, or kissing, We five senses and taking away one or more of your senses, OH boy! the others are instantly heightened. Let's have some fun using a feather brushing or fingertips gently tracing on your partner's body.

Furry handcuffs – fur on the inside to prevent chafing, and can’t close too far (which cuts off the circulation) and your partner can take full control. Why not try being face-down?

Restraints Me - it's teasing bed restraints full of endless possibilities. The straps slide easily underneath your mattress and with four cuffs, for your wrists and ankles (they’re easy to untie for safety) Why not try arousing your partner with ice cubes?

Spank Me Please - using a whip or paddle to sensually arouse such areas as the breasts, buttocks or inner thighs – this real will definitely awaken their senses. (softly stroke you are a beginner)

Safety Tips

Have a safe word agreed before you begin. This is something that the passive partner can say if they want the other person to stop. Use a common safe word.

Never tie something around someone’s neck unless it is a collar that’s specially made for the purpose. There is a high risk of tissue damage, choking, or fatal strangulation. Similarly, gags are potentially dangerous.

If someone is tied up, they must never be left alone.

Whether you want to dive right in or take it nice and slow, please discuss it beforehand about limits, to give up full control isn't always an easy thing but you must both have to be comfortable otherwise it will plunge.

We are done.... Keep exploring your new kinky adventure!

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